Damned Love (community of lovers)

i read in a magazine about masturbating for mens they have irt 1 time at day and wonens are having 3 times a day who is the hotest and need the other is it women need men or men need women if any one have the answer writ a comment plzz bye

i need love

i have a freind how i like her very much and we talk all the time and lought but i feel i love her and i dont know what her feeling about me

my question for all. how to seduce a girl to have sex with u? IF ANY ONE HAVE ANSWER HE OR SHE CAN WRIT A COMMENT TNX FOR ALL

im 17 and my "husband" is 27 and he has two babymommas and the first 1 is cool but the 2nd 1 is pregnant now and she pretty much control him because im going to the marine core and at 1st she said she wasnt prgo then she said she was gettin him the kid now she said that he cant have it and its messin us up because when i leave he sayin he would be able to come because of the kid so should i stay with him or serve papers

i like a girl who live not far of my house she is pretty and cute but i dont know how to tell her thats she look to me all the time in my eyes can u help me plzz i need a girl advise plzz

i love a girl and i want to go out with her she all time see in my eyes and i see in her eyes but she feel shy and she see in anothour place --shy-- i hope i have explain very good i need ur advise plzz help!!!!!

hi iam a 20 years old i love a girl have 15 years old she is sexy and hot when i see her in the street she just go and see in my eyes alwayes see and i see in her eyes and need a solution plzz advise me plzz

i love girls that's all

I was on a ski trip in Vermont with my school's Ski Club. I had already seen her around school and I wanted to get to know her better(I am a good person with good intentions, not a horn-dog that only thinks about sex like half the d**ks in my school). So I spent some time with her on the trip, got to know her, apparently she liked me. I am very modest, so I was thinking there was no way In hell that we could be anything more than friends If even that.

We watched a movie together and held hands on the last night of the trip, and cuddled and kissed on the bus ride home( I'm 17 and that was my first kiss, don't judge please). So I guess we decided that the last day of the trip on the bus ride home was when we started going out. The day before that, she had broken up with her mentally abusive/controlling ex-boyfriend she had been seeing for 8 months( whom she also lost her virginity to). He kept texting her during our relationship, I thought nothing of this and went on like normal. I am not controlling, or a d**k, so I thought that she actually wanted to be with me, well, I was wrong. 2 weeks into our relationship, she calls me crying, saying she doesn't know what to do, she's twisted and confused. She still wanted to be with him, I felt like I wanted to collapse( this was my first relationship and I really wanted It to work). So I told her I wanted her to be happy and I wouldn't stop her If she wanted to be with him, If that's what made her happy.

She called me 20 minutes later and said she chose me, so I was really happy, but I couldn't help feeling like this would happen again. I was right. The last week of our relationship, she started acting differently. She came over last Saturday and... we did stuff, which I now regret with all of my being. I went over her house on Sunday and we were not acting how we normally did so I knew something was up. She texted me later saying she didn't know how she felt about us, and she broke up with me. She went back to him, and he gave her crap about going out with me, she isn't talking to me, I don't know for a fact but I'm pretty sure It's because he told her to stop talking to me. I did't realize how much I liked her until now, she says she's in love with him, I know that's not true and I know she's not happy.

Her own sister Is pissed at her for what she did to me( what we did and being my first girlfriend and all). It's not what she did that's killing me, It's what she's doing to herself, she told me that he makes her feel like crap when she's with him, and that he masturbates to other girls facebook pictures( you probably didn't want to hear that, sorry). Why do I feel like this? We didn't even last a month, either I really, really like and care about her, or I don't know. She said things to me that made me feel like I really mattered to her, someone please help me, I don't know what to do.

So, to put this really quickly since my laptop's dying, I'm not over my ex. It's been almost a year, she was the first girl I loved, and I broke up with her. We haven't been in contact forever, but she's always somewhere in my mind. I still love her, and she's there in my mind, but at the same time I do develop feelings for other girls. The thing that keeps making me wish I stayed with her, despite her flaws, was that she, too, loved me for who I was. Now, here I am, once again suffering from insomnia over this. A friend told me to "get laid." Because it apparently "will boost my self-confidence." As douchebag of a move that it is, I may even consider it now that I don't find myself being able pick up girls and I always conclude that Sarah (my ex) is the issue. Any advice on how i should go about this would be really great, thanks, and have a wonderful night everyone.

So, I have posted here before, and, in reading these former posts, I feel pretty pathetic. Anyways, now that I have matured in the last year or so, I, once again, need the advice of my fellow damned lovers.

To begin with, I have a pretty low self esteem, even though I don't let it show. I find that whenever I meet a girl I think is cute, and I'd like to date her, either I find an excuse about something that is wrong with me, or she simply shoots me down and goes for some other guy, who, in my opinion, is not that great of a guy and he acts childish.

I'm sort of that "nice guy" when it comes to talking to girls, but it's because I actually do care about them, but that somehow always puts me in the friendzone, or as a backup date. The last girl I'd had feelings for, went for a bad-boy after shooting me down, and she had something like a 1-2 week fling with him.

I usually try to be funny, sincere, friendly, and talkative when I'm around girls, and I subtly flirt, but it's more light. I don't think the problem lies in the fact that I'm unattractive, because I've been told I'm about an 8-9/10, and I stay fit and keep up with hygiene.

I'm not sure if it's just that there are few girls I know who fit my criteria, or that I'm just not boyfriend material.

So, ladies, what do you look for in a guy? If possible, I'd like specific yes's and no's, rather than the general stuff. Guys, how would you say I go about asking out girls? Should I make a change in how I talk to girls?

Finally, some background info about me. I'm a professional videogame player during the summers, I'm about to finish grade 10, I'm usually top of my class, I love socializing, but not in a "high school party" setting where there are drugs and alcohol, and I'm more about relationships than hook-ups.

I look forward to your responses!

Sincerely,
Matthew

i want to meet somebody

Here's the problem with being raised entirely by a strong-willed, independent woman, free from steady male influence: You come to regard women with such respect that you feel ashamed to "pick them up".

Think about it, fellas: what happens when a you pick up a girl? You make an assessment based on physical attractiveness (whether you know it or not) and you decide to give it a shot by feeding her some line about "just a friendly drink" or worse, "is heaven missing an angel...". =P You may tell yourself that you're "just being friendly", but come on... who are you kidding? It's all pretense.

Unless you have a legitimate reason to talk to her, as in "I was absent yesterday; did you get the homework?" or "That boss of ours is kind of a tool, huh?" the only reason you're talking to her is to eventually get into her pants.

As a guy who values women based on the merits of their company, and the myriad of other NON-PHYSICAL traits they have to offer, this approach offends me.

I resent the fact that so many men approach women like a video game: enter the right code, or follow the correct formula and you'll score big.

I see so many guys telling women exactly what they think she wants to hear in the hopes that if they rack up enough brownie points, she'll give them a reward in the end... and what gets me is that in many cases, she actually DOES! I can only conclude that she's so blinded by love, that she buys into all the bullshit, only to get her heart broken when she discovers he isn't genuine.

Is this really how the game is played? Am I just meant to just pick girls who look hot in the off-chance that once the lust wears off, one of them miraculously turns out to be a compatible mate? If so, I'm in a lot of trouble.

Don't get me wrong... I appreciate female beauty just as much as the next guy. But a pretty face isn't enough to make me want to "try my luck". I need a woman with substance to really hold my interest. I need a way to pick up girls without the goal actually being to "pick them up"!

If anybody knows of a way to convey to a girl that I'm not chatting her up in the hope that she'll sleep with me (at least not RIGHT AWAY ;) ), but just to determine whether she and I might share some level of compatibility, let me know!

I refuse to put myself up for auction on one of those dating sites like so much beef.

So let this serve as a warning to anyone labouring under the delusion that the feminist movement is all positive. I'm all for women's rights, but be aware: it comes at a cost!

-DamnedLover

I'm now 20 and I met this girl when I was 16 in high school. There was a lot of drama back then, though it's like that for everyone I assume. We started dating a year after I met her and then we broke up about 3 months later because I got scared of commitment. She ended up dating a good friend of mine over the summer. They later broke up 4 months later when they went to college. We kept talking the whole time and I helped her get over him and we started dating again. Things went on great and then I left for the military. A year after we started dating we broke up again because of the distance. What happened next, I'm still not sure if it's because she wanted sex or if she had/has feelings for him but she started having sex with one of my other friends. (We share the same group of friends, pretty much if she knows them I know them) Now the guy she was having sex with, we were 19 at the time going on 2 years ago, is all over the place with his feelings and also doesn't live in the same town as her. I guess they had a thing going on until recently. I still kept talking to her because as much as I try I still feel as though I'm in love with her. She's the only person I can talk to about anything. She's the only person who understands how I am when I'm alone because she is the same way. She had therapy earlier in the year for some problems she was having with her life and she is more mentally stable than she has been. We were talking recently about moving in together. It always seems like we are perfect when we're together but when we move apart the problems surface. I'm wondering if I'm just going crazy and can't see that there's too many problems and it won't work or if that's just a normal fear people have before they attempt to give their heart to someone.